For Inquisitive Ladies: How To Know If You’re Just A Side Chick
If you are reading this, there is a high possibility your intuition has been giving you signals that something if off in your relationship. Some men can lie and with a little help from technology, they are able to stay on top of their game when it comes to dating multiple women. Being a side-chick may be fun for some individuals but if you are a woman who knows what she wants and does not want to settle for less, here are ways to find out if you are the side-chick or not:
1. He never spends the night
He is always giving excuses not to sleep over even though you have been seeing each other for a while now. He probably has a wife or another girlfriend at his waiting for him. No man will pass on any opportunity he gets to spend the entire night with his woman.
2. He’s protective over his phone
The only reason he will be overprotective over his phone is that he is hiding something from you. He turns his phone upside down and does not even allow you to touch it. He gets angry whenever you ask him for it and starts giving excuses about how he doesn’t want the phone to interfere with your conversations.
3. You have not met any of his family members or friends
If the man you have been dating for months has not made any attempt to introduce you to his family or friends, then you are probably the side chick. He always keeps postponing dates to see his family and does not invite you for hangouts with his friends because he wants to keep you a secret.
4. He does not tell you where he lives
He is doing this to prevent any surprise visits from you because he is likely to be with his min girlfriend. A man who truly loves you will show you where he stays and goes the extra mile of even giving you spare keys to his apartment. He gladly wants to share his space with you.
5. He’s mostly MIA and hardly replies your text after you meet
After having fun with you, he goes back to do the same with his main. It takes a while for him to get back to you or he ignores you completely. Sometimes for days, you do not hear from him and he gets back to you with the ‘i am busy’ excuse. A man who makes you top priority will never do that to do.