WOMEN : 5 Things To Stop Telling Your Man If You Value Your Relationship
No matter what you are feeling, these are the things to never tell him if you really still want to be with him.
Women are said to be the more emotional of the genders, and this often influences the things they say and even how they say them.
Especially when a woman’s emotions are running high; whether in anger, fear, jealousy or while due to any other emotion known to be felt by humans.
However, no matter how emotional you are, saying some things to your boo might ruin your relationship permanently, even though you did not really the words. So it is better to stop telling your man those things if you value your relationship
1. “If you don’t love me again just say it”
The very fact that he is misbehaving or not giving you the things you want from him does not mean that he is no longer interested in you.
If you do not love me again, just tell me!
It could be that he has some other issues he is trying to handle without involving you. Just cut him some slack, stop badgering him to tell you something you really do not want to hear.
2. “Do what you want I don’t care”
From experience, when women say this they hardly ever mean it. However, repeating this all the time to your partner might actually make him believe that you indeed do not care.
If he indeed does what he wants, it might be the end of that relationship.
Do what you want, who cares?
3. “I want out”
Be careful what you wish for.
Words said in anger might be excused when said once. Repeatedly saying you are no longer in the relationship might eventually cause your partner to let go of you.
Do not cry foul when this happens.
4. “I wish I never met you”
This is a downright hurtful, terrible thing to say.
Throwing this at your partner at every opportunity you get will cause him to get tired of you and of move on to someone else who won’t regret his presence all the time.
5.Do not say hurtful things, do not practice the silent treatment either
The worst thing to apart from these things listed above is to not say anything at all.
No matter the temptation to just sit and say nothing despite there being a lot to say and rant about.
Giving him the silent treatment will cause emotions and unsaid words to pile up over time, and by the time they come bursting out, the damage done might be beyond repair.
Having said all these, the best way to ensure that communication between you and your partner is kept healthy is to be positive, thoughtful and considerate of his feelings when communicating with him.
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